Home Education

Free Bonfire Night Resources

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Remember, remember, the 5th of November; gunpowder, treason, and plot!!

It’s that time of year again. Guy Fawkes and the Gunpowder Plot are being taught up and down the country. Fireworks have been bought and are ready for the big night.

I’ve collated some of our favourite resources below…

Activity Village – videos, printables, games, and more.

Twinkl – printables, presentations, and printable decorations. A free account is needed, and some resources require a paid subscription. We love this site and personally think the subscription is well worth the money.

Sparklebox – free printable worksheets, displays, role play accessories, and more.

We are big fans of the bonfire tradition, there are a lot of bonfire societies where we live, and they always put on great processions, bonfires, and fireworks. Add in some toffee apples and fresh doughnuts and it’s always a hit with the kids.

Home Education

The “S” word again

I’ve missed a beat somewhere. Anna asked last night if she could go to school because she wants to have friends that she sees everyday.

This is not a problem that I foresaw. She makes friends so easily, whenever we go anywhere she always finds somebody to play with. Always. I have seriously underestimated her need for solid, constant friendships with very regular opportunities to play with the same children.

I’ve found a local dance group that meets for half an hour, three days a week. It’s not great but it’s a start. She’s also asked me to sign her up for Rainbows but she’s not old enough until the end of March – that’s a lifetime to a four year old!

I am considering starting my own home ed group, aimed at the younger end of the spectrum. I’ve even found a church hall that is stupidly cheap to hire, just around the corner from our house, and available most mornings.

My other idea is childminding or home ed tuition. There’s a lot less red tape with the latter option, and no OFSTED hoops to jump through. If I could get 2-3 children around her age, I think she would be in heaven.

I’m not completely dismissing her request to attend school, but if I can address the one thing she wants out of it, without enrolling her, then I really want to do it that way. I think she would hate the rigidity of school – she’s already asked to make sure I find one with a purple uniform, she’s very adamant about that!!

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Home Education · Travel

Ten Rainy Day Activities

rainy-dayWhether you’re at home or on holiday, these ten activity suggestions will see you through any rainy day.

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1: Puddle Jumping
Who doesn’t love to get their wellies on and jump in puddles? The muddier, the better, in our opinion. A rainy day is by far the best time for this adventure.

“Some people feel the rain, others just get wet.” – Bob Marley

2: Woodland Walk
Again, get your wellies on and head out. Watch the rain as it hits the trees, pools on the leaves, and then unleashes a freezing flow of water onto your head. Walk in the muddiest places you can find, and feel the ground squelch beneath your feet.

“Rain is confetti from the sky.”

3: The Beach
You don’t need the sun to enjoy the beach. Writing your name in the sand is much easier when it’s wet, as is building sand castles. Who needs a snowman when you can have a sandman?!

“A rainy day at the beach is better than a sunny day at the office.”

4: Sledging
You definitely don’t have to wait for the white stuff for this one. A wet grassy hill is just as good as snow when it comes to sledging.

“Don’t be angry with the rain, it simply does not know how to fall upwards.” – Vladimir Nabokov

5: Water Fight
Your ammo is right there, and readily available. The heavier the rain, the more fun the water fight. Why waste a good opportunity? You could even up the ante with some water balloons.

“Those that say only sunshine brings happiness have never danced in the rain.”

6: Mini Beast Hunt
Have you ever noticed that the snails, slugs, and worms all emerge when it’s raining. Collect them, count them, or simply look at them. Move a large stone or two and you’ll find more mini beasts than you’ll know what to do with.

“Rain makes everything beautiful.”

7: Build a Shelter
Can you make it waterproof? Start with fallen branches and cover with all the twigs and fallen foliage you can find. Hide in your weather proof shelter and enjoy a hot chocolate from the flask you prepared at home. Better yet (as long as it’s legal where you are), find the rare dry logs and make a campfire!

“Without rain, nothing would grow.”

8: Visit a Castle
Or any other outdoor venue. You’ll have the run of the place as nobody else will venture out in the rain. This goes for theme parks too – it’s amazing how many people won’t go if the forecast is not good.

“To enjoy the rainbow, first enjoy the rain.” – Paulo Coelho

9: Forage for Food
There are plenty of goodies still to be harvested from nature in the wetter months. Make sure you are certain of what you are picking, and don’t eat it is there is the slightest doubt in your mind. Crab apples are usually a safe bet, and you can find recipes online that will even make them taste nice!

“No rain, no flowers.”

10: Feed the Ducks
Bread is not good for ducks, so make sure you have actual duck feed and then head to your local duck gathering place. They will be very grateful of your visit as it’s slim pickings when the weather turns.

I like people who smile when it’s raining.”

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Apologies if you were looking for ways to avoid the rain, but that’s just not something we do. It rains far too often in the UK to avoid it, instead we embrace it. Kit your family out with warm waterproofs and boots, and you are good to go for a great day out. After all, do you know anybody that shrinks in the rain?!

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We Are “All Systems Go”

life-begins-at-the-end-of-your-comfort-zone2It took a lot less time to convince The Man that this crazy idea of mine could actually work, and we have even revealed the plan to the kids. We are officially preparing to become fully fletched Worldschoolers.

We have agreed that we do in fact need the larger 6 berth caravan, as we won’t often be able to pitch up an awning. The plan is to stay off-grid as much as possible so that we can keep costs down. I’ve been researching free stopovers and cheap municipal campsites throughout Europe.

My mother knows about the plan but we are not going to mention it to The Man’s parents for a while yet. Our children are their only grandchildren and I know we will be in for the guilt trip of our lives.

The setup costs of my crazy idea are starting to become clear. We will need a new car (I fancy a new-to-us Volvo XC90), obviously we’ll need the ‘van, and there will be a decent solar panel on the list too if the ‘van we buy doesn’t already have one. On top of that, I need a new passport as mine expires soon, and we’ll need good shoes and quality clothing as we’ll be wearing it often. On the financial plus side, we will be getting a nice cash injection when we get the security deposit back on our home, and we’ll get a bit back from the sale of our current car.

I am planning on talking to The Man about living in the ‘van for a while before we head to mainland Europe, and while he is still working here. We would save a small fortune for every month we were not in the house but still receiving his steady income. There are numerous places in our immediate area that allow for a caravan, free of charge. In fact, if we did this with our current car, then we would have more cash for buying the new car which would get us a newer model. This version of the plan would also allow us to tour the UK at weekends and school holidays (The Man works in a school = 13 weeks holiday per year).

So the countdown begins, the lift-off date will be 1st April 2018 at the very latest.

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Home Education · Travel

Trading White Walls For Beaches

Our classroom this morning was the beach. The kids spent hours skipping stones, running around in the wide open space, and generally having a great time.IMG_1170.JPGWe discussed the tide as we watched it creeping up the beach. They were fascinated by the whole process of how and why the sea moves. They learnt about the different types of rock, of which there were plenty of examples on our local pebble beach. We even dissected some seaweed to see what was hiding inside the pods – all we found was air!

After the beach we popped to the local park for a quick bit of playful exercise on the free outdoor gym – the Adizone (not our local one, but identical). More discussions took place here, focussing on gravity, force and energy. We then rounded the morning off with ice cream.

The sun shone bright for the whole morning even though the forecast was for thick cloud. Never trust a weather forecast in the UK!

We are now at home. Olaf is trying to figure out how to get a larger flame on his candle. He has identified that the flame dies down when it is inside his pumpkin, and that it pops back up when he takes it out of the pumpkin. I’m letting him experiment for a little longer before I explain that there is limited oxygen inside his little pumpkin, and why the candle needs oxygen. Elsa is helping him out by relighting his candle when the flame dies out. She has worked out for herself that the safest way to light the candle is with a splint, so that she doesn’t burn herself. Anna couldn’t give two hoots about the candle experiment and is watching Goosebumps.

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How To: Home Educate

how to he.pngYou’re obviously seriously considering home educating your child(ren) or you wouldn’t be ready this. You’ve already covered the most important aspect; research. Information is your best friend, and your best weapon. Home education is still viewed as going against the norms of our society, and people will undoubtedly question your motives and abilities. By doing thorough research you will be ready to block the negative views that you may encounter.

I love having my kids here all the time, we explore and learn together. Home education is incredibly rewarding and freeing, but it can also be extremely challenging and tiring too. For me, the good far outweighs the bad.

It’s very simple to begin home educating your child(ren) in England and Wales, if your child is in a mainstream school. You simply inform the headteacher of their current school via a deregistration letter. Check out Education Otherwise for sample letters. Such a letter can have immediate effect (most people’s preferred choice) or you can state a future date as your child’s last day at school. Top tip: Get a receipt when you deliver your letter, just in case. There is nothing else you need to do at this stage, it really is as simple as that!

If your child has never been enrolled at school, you are not required to inform anybody of your intention to home educate, you simply continue doing what you’ve always done.

il_214x170-1012861167_6gciYour Local Authority (LA) may make contact with you regarding the education of your child. You do not need to fill in the ream of forms that they send you. They will try to make you believe that you need to jump through hoops, of a height determined by them. Education Otherwise will help you out here too. The LA have no right of access to your child or your home, remember this!

The vast majority of home educators will advise you to “deschool”, both for your child’s benefit and for yours. This process involves readjusting to your new lifestyle, after all, most home educators are not trying to replicate school in their own home. Enjoy this time, play lots, relax, visit fun places, and forget about school. The accepted length of time for deschooling is commonly quoted as “one month for every year the child was at school.”

Ok, so you’ve had some fun, now what?

There are many ways to home educate. Hit Google and lookup as many ways as you can: unschooling/autonomous learning/structured home education/semi-structured home education/home school. Decide if you want to follow a set curriculum (you are not obliged to follow the National Curriculum), or whether you’ll do set projects, topics, or go completely child-led. Figure out what it is you want from this experience, and remember, just because you start out one way, it doesn’t mean you can’t change your style later. Personally, our home education is child-led; I facilitate their learning but they tell me what they want to learn about. Top tip: No way is the “right” way, do what feels right for your family.

It really is that easy.

 

 

 

Home Education · Travel

What Is The Point Of Parenting?

451Surely we all parent with the goal of raising happy, independent children. Nobody want’s their child to be miserable, it is never a parent’s aim to teach their child to settle for their lot in life. Or is it?

My mother actually said to me this morning that she must have done something wrong when I was young because she didn’t instil a sense of satisfaction in me. This comment came about when I was telling her about our travel plans. Apparently I am unsatisfied with my life because I am striving for something else. Personally I feel happy with what I have but I want to give my own children opportunities to carve their own way in the world. I don’t want my children to ever settle for less than they deserve. While she was at it she decided to inform me that she wished she’d remained childless – yes, my own mother said this to me. It seems that she honestly believes that she failed me because I want to seek adventure and maintain my happiness.

As it happens, I don’t happen to share her opinion of her parenting. I think she did a great job at the time. She was very laid back and never pressured us into things – this is now something she views as a failure on her part. She was always there when we needed her, and she worked hard to better herself to give us a better life than she had when she was a child – she achieved it; we were always loved, clean, clothed, and well-fed. She taught me to be independent and to love others. She taught me to aim for what I wanted, not for what other people think I should have.

I think the problem with her view of me lies in the fact that I haven’t copied her style of parenting. She doesn’t agree with home education because “children need to learn at school,” she doesn’t believe in travelling with children because “life won’t be better just because you are in a caravan.” Again, I don’t agree with her mainly because I measure “better” on a different scale to her. According to my mother, my brother has a better life than me because he earns a huge amount of money (he really does), and he owns his own house in central London. I see it that I have a better life than him because I get to see my children all day (some days he doesn’t see his at all because he works such long hours), and The Man only works 31 hours a week so I get to see him lots too. We may not have much spare cash but neither are we driving ourselves into the dirt in order to earn it. My family has a happy life (most of the time!), I’m not sure my brother could say the same.

I enjoy being a parent, I find it challenging and rewarding. I love watching my children find themselves. As much as my mother wishes she’d remained childless, I am beginning to wish I’d never been that child.

 

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Throwing Depression Into The Mix

quote-about-depression-10Home educating parents are as prone to depression as any other parent, we are not given immunity to this awful disease simply because we have our children at home. When the warning bells start ringing, it is time to anchor down and concentrate on your mental health.

Build a support network before you need it.

You may not think you are the type of person to suffer depression, but it does not discriminate between people of different classes, cultures, ages, or genders. As a home educating parent it is likely that you have already surrounded yourself with a network of like-minded people – don’t be afraid to use them when you need support, or if you just need to chat to another adult.

Don’t shun professional help.

Sometimes you feel a bit down, which is perfectly normal. When it gets more than this, you need to visit your doctor who will advise whether counselling and/or medication would be the best route for your treatment. Depression is nothing to be ashamed of. Nobody will force your child to attend school due to a diagnosis of depression.

Don’t hide it from your children.

Explain to them that you are not well and reassure them that you are doing all you can to get better. Tell them how some days will have to be a little slower than others, and sometimes they’ll have to play quietly by themselves while you rest. This is perfectly ok! You are not super man/woman so don’t feel bad for not being on top form, we all struggle from time to time. It’s how we deal with those struggles that matters.

Get out in the fresh air.

It’s well known that this will be the last thing that enters your mind, especially on days where it seems impossible to even get out of bed. If you do nothing else, make sure you get outside for half an hour, every single day. Nobody is suggesting that you organise huge road trips or a day at the amusement park, we’re talking about a stroll down the road or a wander around the garden.

Your children’s education will not suffer.

Children learn all the time, even when we don’t realise they are. You will be teaching your child compassion and empathy without even meaning to, you will be showing them how love is unconditional even when you are feeling at your lowest. If they like bookwork then let them carry on by themselves, if they just want to play then that is ok too. This is not a permanent state and you will eventually start to feel better.

Take one day at a time, and remember, you are not alone.

Home Education · Travel

A Short Stay – Cornwall

17f860b26cddb7e777363515c974c46fWe have spent the last four nights at a lovely farmhouse in the Cornish countryside. Butterwell House is part of Treddinick Farm, a fully operational family-run dairy farm. The owner, Angela, lives offsite but popped round on our first evening to make sure we had everything we needed. Given that we’d been greeted by homemade scones, alongside locally produced jam and clotted cream, we were pretty happy! Butterwell House was fully equipped and had everything we could need; logs, full bedding, towels, slow cooker, washing machine, tumble dryer, a well stocked condiments selections, games and toys for adults and kids, to name just a few things! We literally only needed our clothes, personal toiletries, and food. There was a little village shop in Duloe for any daily provisions that we needed.

Timg_1138he delights of Cornwall were enjoyed by all. We visited Looe on our first day, where we had a giggle trying to catch crabs from the quay wall, and on Angela’s recommendation we tucked into a traditional pasty from Sarah’s – it did not disappoint. The kids enjoyed playing at the little park by the Millpond, having bought some sweetie treats from Nanna’s on the way back from the sandy beach. The parking wasn’t too bad in Looe, the little carpark on the quay fills up pretty early in the morning, but the larger carpark at the Millpond had plenty of spaces. It’s a little trickier for wheelchair users though as the route back to the road and into town is very steep.

On the second day we trundled over to Tintagel on the north coast, via Carnglaze Caverns. The caves were brilliant and the children enjoyed exploring in the dark. Don’t forget your jacket though, because even in the height of summer the temperature down there remains at a steady 10c. The owner was full of very interesting information, and the woodland walk was a nice stroll for the sure-footed. The caverns and the woodland walk are not wheelchair accessible though, so bear this in mind if you have anybody in your party that isn’t on their feet. Tintagel was very quaint and traditional. There were plenty of carparks on the main road through the village, and a large number of independent shops to have a browse in. We picked up some St Nectan’s pottery, made in the pottery in the village, as well as visiting Tintagel castle. The castle is part of English Heritage, so members get free access. There is a Land-Rover taxi service that you can opt for instead of walking to the castle, but again, the castle itself is not wheelchair accessible. We opted for lunch in the local branch of The Cornish Bakery; the pasties were tasty but not as good as the ones in Looe.

The next day we opted for a return visit to Looe, earlier in the morning, so that we could have a wander around before it got busy. We arrived at 9am and had no problems getting parked in the little carpark on the quay. The tide was out this time though, which meant there was no opportunity for catching crabs. We walked out to the banjo pier and soaked up the sea breeze and the view. It was a little bumpy in the wheelchair, but totally accessible. We grabbed the obligatory pasties from Sarah’s before hopping back in the car and driving the short distance to Polperro. The roads in Polperro are extremely narrow, and only open to local residents – everybody else has to park in the carpark at the top of the village and wander down the road. The road into the village wasn’t as steep as I’d feared, and it was fine in the wheelchair. It’s a bit of a slog back up the hill though! The Man, the kids, and the puppy had a great time on the little beach, the kids in particular were thrilled with the cave they found. A word of warning though, keep your eye on the tide – it comes in pretty fast and cuts off the access steps. If you’re not paying attention then you could find yourself having to scramble up the rocks to escape the water!

Plymouth was the destination for our last day, which I realise is in Devon! We headed up to The Hoe to take in the view of Drake’s Island and to see the lighthouse. The city itself was fine, it was mostly pedestrianised which is useful with kids, and it has all the big named shops that you would expect to find in a city. We had a nice lunch in The Americano Coffee House – don’t be fooled by the name, they have a full food menu. The food was very tasty and reasonably priced, and the portions were good. I would avoid the kids menu for any child over the age of 5 or 6 though, as they were small portions (perhaps order two per child!). We used the Park & Ride from Milehouse carpark for ease; the parking is free and the bus ticket for up to five people was £4.20. The bus runs every ten minutes and takes you right into the city centre and is wheelchair accessible.

Dogs…. We found that our little pup was welcome in all of the independent shops and cafes that we tried. If in doubt – ask!

Parking…. Free parking doesn’t seem to exist here, so keep your pocket well stocked with change.

The roads…. Some of them are single track, and barely wide enough for one car. Go with your gut and ignore your Sat Nav if the route doesn’t look to be a good one. There will always be another way to get where you want to go.

The locals…. Everybody we encountered was extremely friendly. Cornwall thrives on visitors, be polite and you’ll get the same in return.

Most importantly…. Have fun, explore, and enjoy a proper pasty, or three!!

 

Home Education · Travel

I’m going for it!

Regardless of being the recipient of *that* look (see previous post), I have decided to plough on with my research into full-time, open-ended travel. See, I’ve even found out what this idea of mine is called!

Predominantly, I have been looking at our choices as far as “home” is concerned. It appears that we have four options:

  • Tent
  • Caravan
  • Campervan
  • Converted bus

Having looked at the positives and negatives of all four, I am now more sure of the fact that a caravan would be the right thing for us. We want a toilet onboard, which immediately ruled out the tent. We’d also rather have the option of pitching up and still having a separate vehicle, which crossed off the bottom two options. Even though I have always dreamed of living in a converted bus, it just does not tick the boxes. Maybe in time, who knows?

I think we could pick up a fairly nice caravan and awning for a few thousand pounds, which would give us ample living and sleeping space. Obviously I’m thinking secondhand at this point. We could always upgrade in the future if the lifestyle works out for us. I’ve never towed a caravan before, which actually seems more daunting to me than packing our lives into it!

The issue of what to do in winter has also been hovering around my brain. I’m thinking southern Spain/Portugal/Italy would be the best options to avoid the colder weather. We’re not adverse to portable heaters and blankets, but we’d rather avoid ice and snow.

As for schooling the kids, we are unschoolers/autonomous learners, so we don’t need to factor in space for workbooks or even a reliable internet connection. I’d be happy to work with what we can get, and work around it when it’s not available.

Do you think we should start off by travelling the UK first, or should we jump into mainland Europe with both feet? This is the one thing I’m not too sure about.

Any other suggestions would be most welcome. I’m trying desperately not to look at any of this through rose tinted glasses, but I’m so excited by it all.