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Another Crazy Idea, or Two

This time it wasn’t from me! The Man has really jumped onboard with my travel idea – he rarely does excitement and enthusiasm, and at the moment he is experiencing both. I’m so glad that I took the plunge to suggest we up sticks and travel. He really wants to get back to basics and enjoy life for itself, rather than it passing by while we’re busy doing the mundane things that “need” to be done.

In line with this want, he has suggested that we go without hot running water in our coach conversion and perhaps even install a wood burner as our only form of heating. The Man wants to spend time getting back to nature, gathering firewood, and prepping meals as a family. I’m a little hesitant but I have to admit that it sounds like a nice lifestyle.

Rather uncharacteristically, The Man also came out with the fact that he would be happy to do away with the TV. I am over the moon about this, as I hate it, and I thought it would take months of persuasion from me for him to admit we wouldn’t actually need it. Not to mention the amount of electricity it would use!

 

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Once upon a time…

… I used to enjoy Sundays.

Long, lazy mornings in bed with coffee and breakfast, followed by a stroll around a random pretty town and a quiet late lunch with The Man. Dinner was minimal, clean up was almost non-existent and the evening was calm whilst we prepared for the inevitable Monday morning that would follow.

Sundays now are a work of the devil. They are long, tortuous days that start with an early whirlwind of noise and activity, have a middle made of arguing and cries of “I’m bored”, and then culminate in an evening of tornado-like chaos with the kids refusing to bathe or sleep. On days where we dare to show our faces in the wider world, further bedlam unfolds and we are invariably left exhausted by our weekend and “day of rest”!!

 

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Our Ever Changing Plan

We have officially turned our backs on the caravan and car combination, and we are now leaning heavily towards a coach conversion with the addition of a family car. The coach would provide much more generous living accommodation and the car would serve for accessing the tighter spots and small villages that we would want to explore.

We’ve taken into account the fact that the coach would only get about 10 mpg on good runs, and even less on urban drives. Given that we plan to travel very slowly, we wouldn’t be looking at moving the coach more than once per week, and no more than fifty or so miles at a time.

I have been reading up a lot on coach and bus conversions, and I’m more and more convinced that this is what we should have. We’d fit two or three solar panels to the roof, and water tanks and leisure batteries would easily fit in the under storage area, with plenty of space for bikes.

Our current car fits the bill well as the additional vehicle. It is incredibly economical and averages over 50mpg on a fast run! The insurance is cheap and the road tax doesn’t break the bank. It is also paid for in full (well, it will be before we start traveling) and five plus a dog fit comfortably inside. We’d also save on not buying a new car – this car is great but it wouldn’t be able to tow the size of caravan that we’d want/need.

It would also be easier to live with a coach conversion as we wouldn’t need to site and level it in the same way as a caravan, and we wouldn’t have the problem of leaving an unhitched caravan anywhere while we went off exploring.

We’ve priced up the coach purchase, conversion, and driving lessons/test that I would need, and it comes in at less than a new car and caravan. It seems to be a no-brainer really!

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A Shrinking World

hitler-donald-trumpThe presidential election results in the US certainly seem to be a cause for concern, particularly if you belong to a racial, religious, or in fact any type of group, that the new President Elect does not like. He has not been quiet about the fact he wants to block the roads from Mexico with a giant wall, and don’t even get me started on his “suggestion” to ban Muslims from the US. One has to wonder if the United States of America is going to become a complete no-go zone for anybody that does not tow the Trump line. I am in no way suggesting that Trump is going to exterminate millions of people, but you have got to agree that the similarities at this stage are very frightening.

There is also no ignoring the fact that the UK is in the complicated throngs of Brexit. How the UK’s borders will end up is anybody’s guess at this point in time. Will the European loving UK citizens sudden find they no longer have free access to the EU? I know, personally, that I count myself as a European and a member of the EU. It is not a label I would have willingly given up. It’s amazing how many Brits don’t realise that we are not actually part of the Schengen area, and so we have very little protection when it comes to retaining our current access to the EU. It is very possible that we may soon find ourselves with the same 90 day limit as the rest of the world.

As a family we are very open to the free movement of people. You can not choose the country you are born in, or the colour of your skin. We are all citizens of the world, so why should we be restricted from exploring that world?

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Creating An Income

By George, I think I’ve done it!

The Man is a very talented amateur photographer, he has taken some beautiful pictures. He enjoys concentrating on close ups of nature and super close ups of architecture. His passion and focus is on capturing texture and the beauty hidden within it.

So, I am going to start to market his photographs. That is my big plan. I have found a website that deals with all the ordering, printing, and delivery. This is an added bonus as it means that having an unreliable internet connection will not be a problem for processing sales.

Obviously I haven’t spoke to The Man about this yet. Surely you’ve figured out my style by now?! I will speak to him over dinner tonight, after all, he does own the copyright. I’m positive he won’t say no. Shh, don’t tell him that I’ve already got two buyers lined up.

Now all I have to do is think of more ways to make money. We definitely don’t want all our eggs in one basket!!

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From Hoarders To Houseless

Not like you see on TV! I promise we are not that bad. Everything we hoard is out of sight but it’s still there and it has to go. We can’t live in a caravan with even a kg of unnecessary belongings.

I have a large cupboard over the stairs. We filled it with “stuff” when we moved here, two years ago. Besides the fake Christmas tree, nothing else has ever been retrieved from that cupboard. It’s now at the point where I don’t even remember what is in there.

Another hidden spot lies under our bed. The space is full under there. With what, I do not know! Clearly it can’t be important or I would know what it was.

All these belongings need to go. There’s no two-ways about that.

There is also the stuff we hold dear; books, toys, tools, and paintings. These have to go too. This is going to be the hardest part of the whole experience, especially for the kids. Obviously we will keep a few things but space (and weight allowance) is going to be tight, and with five of us, that limits what each person can have.

Hiring long-term storage is not suitable. We don’t plan on returning for a long time, and it would be a waste of money to store things that we will never see again. If we’re prepared to leave it behind then we’re prepared to let go of it altogether.

We may still have 12-18 months before we begin travelling but we need to start downsizing the possessions straight away. Things need to stop coming into the house, unless they will specifically be for when we travel.

Let the minimalising begin!!

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Ten Rainy Day Activities

rainy-dayWhether you’re at home or on holiday, these ten activity suggestions will see you through any rainy day.

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1: Puddle Jumping
Who doesn’t love to get their wellies on and jump in puddles? The muddier, the better, in our opinion. A rainy day is by far the best time for this adventure.

“Some people feel the rain, others just get wet.” – Bob Marley

2: Woodland Walk
Again, get your wellies on and head out. Watch the rain as it hits the trees, pools on the leaves, and then unleashes a freezing flow of water onto your head. Walk in the muddiest places you can find, and feel the ground squelch beneath your feet.

“Rain is confetti from the sky.”

3: The Beach
You don’t need the sun to enjoy the beach. Writing your name in the sand is much easier when it’s wet, as is building sand castles. Who needs a snowman when you can have a sandman?!

“A rainy day at the beach is better than a sunny day at the office.”

4: Sledging
You definitely don’t have to wait for the white stuff for this one. A wet grassy hill is just as good as snow when it comes to sledging.

“Don’t be angry with the rain, it simply does not know how to fall upwards.” – Vladimir Nabokov

5: Water Fight
Your ammo is right there, and readily available. The heavier the rain, the more fun the water fight. Why waste a good opportunity? You could even up the ante with some water balloons.

“Those that say only sunshine brings happiness have never danced in the rain.”

6: Mini Beast Hunt
Have you ever noticed that the snails, slugs, and worms all emerge when it’s raining. Collect them, count them, or simply look at them. Move a large stone or two and you’ll find more mini beasts than you’ll know what to do with.

“Rain makes everything beautiful.”

7: Build a Shelter
Can you make it waterproof? Start with fallen branches and cover with all the twigs and fallen foliage you can find. Hide in your weather proof shelter and enjoy a hot chocolate from the flask you prepared at home. Better yet (as long as it’s legal where you are), find the rare dry logs and make a campfire!

“Without rain, nothing would grow.”

8: Visit a Castle
Or any other outdoor venue. You’ll have the run of the place as nobody else will venture out in the rain. This goes for theme parks too – it’s amazing how many people won’t go if the forecast is not good.

“To enjoy the rainbow, first enjoy the rain.” – Paulo Coelho

9: Forage for Food
There are plenty of goodies still to be harvested from nature in the wetter months. Make sure you are certain of what you are picking, and don’t eat it is there is the slightest doubt in your mind. Crab apples are usually a safe bet, and you can find recipes online that will even make them taste nice!

“No rain, no flowers.”

10: Feed the Ducks
Bread is not good for ducks, so make sure you have actual duck feed and then head to your local duck gathering place. They will be very grateful of your visit as it’s slim pickings when the weather turns.

I like people who smile when it’s raining.”

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Apologies if you were looking for ways to avoid the rain, but that’s just not something we do. It rains far too often in the UK to avoid it, instead we embrace it. Kit your family out with warm waterproofs and boots, and you are good to go for a great day out. After all, do you know anybody that shrinks in the rain?!

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Trading White Walls For Beaches

Our classroom this morning was the beach. The kids spent hours skipping stones, running around in the wide open space, and generally having a great time.IMG_1170.JPGWe discussed the tide as we watched it creeping up the beach. They were fascinated by the whole process of how and why the sea moves. They learnt about the different types of rock, of which there were plenty of examples on our local pebble beach. We even dissected some seaweed to see what was hiding inside the pods – all we found was air!

After the beach we popped to the local park for a quick bit of playful exercise on the free outdoor gym – the Adizone (not our local one, but identical). More discussions took place here, focussing on gravity, force and energy. We then rounded the morning off with ice cream.

The sun shone bright for the whole morning even though the forecast was for thick cloud. Never trust a weather forecast in the UK!

We are now at home. Olaf is trying to figure out how to get a larger flame on his candle. He has identified that the flame dies down when it is inside his pumpkin, and that it pops back up when he takes it out of the pumpkin. I’m letting him experiment for a little longer before I explain that there is limited oxygen inside his little pumpkin, and why the candle needs oxygen. Elsa is helping him out by relighting his candle when the flame dies out. She has worked out for herself that the safest way to light the candle is with a splint, so that she doesn’t burn herself. Anna couldn’t give two hoots about the candle experiment and is watching Goosebumps.

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What Is The Point Of Parenting?

451Surely we all parent with the goal of raising happy, independent children. Nobody want’s their child to be miserable, it is never a parent’s aim to teach their child to settle for their lot in life. Or is it?

My mother actually said to me this morning that she must have done something wrong when I was young because she didn’t instil a sense of satisfaction in me. This comment came about when I was telling her about our travel plans. Apparently I am unsatisfied with my life because I am striving for something else. Personally I feel happy with what I have but I want to give my own children opportunities to carve their own way in the world. I don’t want my children to ever settle for less than they deserve. While she was at it she decided to inform me that she wished she’d remained childless – yes, my own mother said this to me. It seems that she honestly believes that she failed me because I want to seek adventure and maintain my happiness.

As it happens, I don’t happen to share her opinion of her parenting. I think she did a great job at the time. She was very laid back and never pressured us into things – this is now something she views as a failure on her part. She was always there when we needed her, and she worked hard to better herself to give us a better life than she had when she was a child – she achieved it; we were always loved, clean, clothed, and well-fed. She taught me to be independent and to love others. She taught me to aim for what I wanted, not for what other people think I should have.

I think the problem with her view of me lies in the fact that I haven’t copied her style of parenting. She doesn’t agree with home education because “children need to learn at school,” she doesn’t believe in travelling with children because “life won’t be better just because you are in a caravan.” Again, I don’t agree with her mainly because I measure “better” on a different scale to her. According to my mother, my brother has a better life than me because he earns a huge amount of money (he really does), and he owns his own house in central London. I see it that I have a better life than him because I get to see my children all day (some days he doesn’t see his at all because he works such long hours), and The Man only works 31 hours a week so I get to see him lots too. We may not have much spare cash but neither are we driving ourselves into the dirt in order to earn it. My family has a happy life (most of the time!), I’m not sure my brother could say the same.

I enjoy being a parent, I find it challenging and rewarding. I love watching my children find themselves. As much as my mother wishes she’d remained childless, I am beginning to wish I’d never been that child.

 

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A Short Stay – Cornwall

17f860b26cddb7e777363515c974c46fWe have spent the last four nights at a lovely farmhouse in the Cornish countryside. Butterwell House is part of Treddinick Farm, a fully operational family-run dairy farm. The owner, Angela, lives offsite but popped round on our first evening to make sure we had everything we needed. Given that we’d been greeted by homemade scones, alongside locally produced jam and clotted cream, we were pretty happy! Butterwell House was fully equipped and had everything we could need; logs, full bedding, towels, slow cooker, washing machine, tumble dryer, a well stocked condiments selections, games and toys for adults and kids, to name just a few things! We literally only needed our clothes, personal toiletries, and food. There was a little village shop in Duloe for any daily provisions that we needed.

Timg_1138he delights of Cornwall were enjoyed by all. We visited Looe on our first day, where we had a giggle trying to catch crabs from the quay wall, and on Angela’s recommendation we tucked into a traditional pasty from Sarah’s – it did not disappoint. The kids enjoyed playing at the little park by the Millpond, having bought some sweetie treats from Nanna’s on the way back from the sandy beach. The parking wasn’t too bad in Looe, the little carpark on the quay fills up pretty early in the morning, but the larger carpark at the Millpond had plenty of spaces. It’s a little trickier for wheelchair users though as the route back to the road and into town is very steep.

On the second day we trundled over to Tintagel on the north coast, via Carnglaze Caverns. The caves were brilliant and the children enjoyed exploring in the dark. Don’t forget your jacket though, because even in the height of summer the temperature down there remains at a steady 10c. The owner was full of very interesting information, and the woodland walk was a nice stroll for the sure-footed. The caverns and the woodland walk are not wheelchair accessible though, so bear this in mind if you have anybody in your party that isn’t on their feet. Tintagel was very quaint and traditional. There were plenty of carparks on the main road through the village, and a large number of independent shops to have a browse in. We picked up some St Nectan’s pottery, made in the pottery in the village, as well as visiting Tintagel castle. The castle is part of English Heritage, so members get free access. There is a Land-Rover taxi service that you can opt for instead of walking to the castle, but again, the castle itself is not wheelchair accessible. We opted for lunch in the local branch of The Cornish Bakery; the pasties were tasty but not as good as the ones in Looe.

The next day we opted for a return visit to Looe, earlier in the morning, so that we could have a wander around before it got busy. We arrived at 9am and had no problems getting parked in the little carpark on the quay. The tide was out this time though, which meant there was no opportunity for catching crabs. We walked out to the banjo pier and soaked up the sea breeze and the view. It was a little bumpy in the wheelchair, but totally accessible. We grabbed the obligatory pasties from Sarah’s before hopping back in the car and driving the short distance to Polperro. The roads in Polperro are extremely narrow, and only open to local residents – everybody else has to park in the carpark at the top of the village and wander down the road. The road into the village wasn’t as steep as I’d feared, and it was fine in the wheelchair. It’s a bit of a slog back up the hill though! The Man, the kids, and the puppy had a great time on the little beach, the kids in particular were thrilled with the cave they found. A word of warning though, keep your eye on the tide – it comes in pretty fast and cuts off the access steps. If you’re not paying attention then you could find yourself having to scramble up the rocks to escape the water!

Plymouth was the destination for our last day, which I realise is in Devon! We headed up to The Hoe to take in the view of Drake’s Island and to see the lighthouse. The city itself was fine, it was mostly pedestrianised which is useful with kids, and it has all the big named shops that you would expect to find in a city. We had a nice lunch in The Americano Coffee House – don’t be fooled by the name, they have a full food menu. The food was very tasty and reasonably priced, and the portions were good. I would avoid the kids menu for any child over the age of 5 or 6 though, as they were small portions (perhaps order two per child!). We used the Park & Ride from Milehouse carpark for ease; the parking is free and the bus ticket for up to five people was £4.20. The bus runs every ten minutes and takes you right into the city centre and is wheelchair accessible.

Dogs…. We found that our little pup was welcome in all of the independent shops and cafes that we tried. If in doubt – ask!

Parking…. Free parking doesn’t seem to exist here, so keep your pocket well stocked with change.

The roads…. Some of them are single track, and barely wide enough for one car. Go with your gut and ignore your Sat Nav if the route doesn’t look to be a good one. There will always be another way to get where you want to go.

The locals…. Everybody we encountered was extremely friendly. Cornwall thrives on visitors, be polite and you’ll get the same in return.

Most importantly…. Have fun, explore, and enjoy a proper pasty, or three!!